Cis people be like: “If someone mistook me for a woman/man ***I*** wouldn’t be offended!!” Like bitch are you shitting me you can easily tell them “oh no I’m a (insert binary gender here)” AND THEN YOUR PROBLEM IS SOLVED BECAUSE YOU ARE CIS. If I try and fucking correct people to tell them I’m not a girl I get barraged with questions such as why I have breasts and why my voice is so high pitched if I’m not a girl. Also not to fucking mention that cis people don’t have body and social dysphoria to the point where being misgendered literally causes your heart to sink and your stomach to turn in a way that makes you feel sick and you just want to scream and cry.
I was feeling super dysphoric and stressed out today after 3 days of nothing but being misgendered and then I was working with a dog that just wouldn’t move and I couldn’t get it to cooperate and I just broke down into an anxiety attack because I didn’t want to ask for help and get called a girl again so I just sat there trying not to throw up. No one saw me and luckily I got up before anyone came to the back room but I just?? Want to be able to tell my managers that it’s killing me being called a she, but things are just going so well so far and everyone seems to like me so far and I’m so fucking afraid that coming out will ruin everything.
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